Rachel Ray Interviews Michael Fiore – Author of Text Your Ex Back
Getting an ex boyfriend back is not like a walk in the park. This means that it would not be easy to have someone back who had chosen to dump his girl. Men usually have reasons on why they choose to end their current relationships. Some of the reasons include disappearance of attraction or the fact that there are some things in their lives that they need to deal with alone.
All relationships pass through this stage where both party just need to spend time alone and away from each other to reflect about what happened to the relationship and what could have been if they tried to fix it right away. Girls who are too afraid of losing that special someone sometimes end up doing things that push the guys away instead of giving him another chance. During the break up and while in the process of acceptance and moving on, there is one thought that she usually ask herself, “Does he ever think of me?” The answer is yes. He still thinks of that person he used to love and he sure still has feelings for her. But he needs time and space to figure things out.
Getting an ex boyfriend back takes time although you may want it to be fast. There are some things that both parties have to work on themselves. What should a lady do to succeed in winning his ex boyfriend’s heart and affection for the second time around? The following are some tips and advices on what to do while taking a break from the relationship. After the break up, the first thing that a girl needs to do is to consider his reasons why he asked for a break. She must reflect on the relationship to see if it is still worth saving and working out. She must also think about why she wants her ex boyfriend back.
Next is to be the girl the he fell in love with. During the course of the relationship, it is possible for people to change. She must think on what had happened to her that made him go away. Maybe she has changed negatively that the changes had driven him away. She must look back on the days that they weren’t together yet. What are the things that they used to do? What are the things that made him consider her as a girlfriend material? She must also focus on her physical appearance. The way a girl looks physically after a break up shows an ex boyfriend how independent she can be. In this way, she is sending him a signal that can be fine without him and she knows how to take of herself even without him. It is undeniable that physical attraction is on top of the list of guys. They wouldn’t go out with a girl that they don’t feel attracted to. And from there intimate feelings start to develop.
Getting an ex boyfriend back again is possible. Everyday, couples get back together after realizing how much the other party has grown after being apart. The days, months or even years apart can change a lot of things but if the bond and connection in the past are stronger, she will surely have him back. Men just need time and space alone to reflect on the past and foresee the future. Hopefully, this article has given you some hope. It may take a few steps to get him back but it is not totally impossible.